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  • w3dd1e@lemm.eetocats@lemmy.worldMe at daycare
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    At that age he carried around a stuffed cow and absolutely loved The Wizard of Oz. Our dad loved musicals as much as martial arts movies. We were blessed to have supportive families. He’s 22 now. I saw him last weekend. He was excited to be babysitting his gf’s pet snake. He’s a good kid.



  • w3dd1e@lemm.eetoMemes@sopuli.xyzValid point
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    Happy to help! The industry I work in is fairly small in number but we handle a huge portion of commercial loans.

    It’s just not one of those things most people know unless you are directly impacted by it. It’s not like Residential Mortgages as much as you’d think.

    EDIT: Also, it is BS. You’re right.


  • w3dd1e@lemm.eetoMemes@sopuli.xyzValid point
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    Some of the answers you already received are partially correct, but I work in Commercial Real Estate and I’d wager it’s because when a large tenant stops operating at a location, it causes a trigger on the loan that has repercussions due the property owner. Often, they lose access to manage their own rents.

    This happens even if the tenant is still paying rent. It’s because a vacant tenant, especially a large one, loses business for the surrounding business.

    Example: A grocery store in a strip mall closes down for repairs. Even if they are still occupying the space, it would cause a trigger. Lots of the other spaces in the strip mall are more valuable with traffic from the grocery store shoppers.

    TLDR, they don’t want a loan violation that will cost them.








  • w3dd1e@lemm.eeto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerulebreaking
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    3 months ago

    Fun fact! “Fun”, actually.

    Under God wasn’t in the original version. It wasn’t added until 1954 because they didn’t to be like communist countries and be seen as a secular government.

    Good old fashion forcing religion on your citizens.




  • Actually, yeah. Something visual would probably be much better. That’s a great idea! Next time the topic comes up I’ll try that!

    If he is interested in something he’ll dive in head first. He reads so much! But if he’s not interested in something…that’s another story. It’s hard for him to fake it lol

    We watch a lot of mini documentary on YouTube. I can’t believe I didn’t think of that before!


  • I would disagree with your premise but it’s not your fault. It’s my fault for not explaining it clearly

    I don’t think not knowing something makes you stupid. Humans can’t know everything. We all have strengths and weaknesses. I know about taxes, but I don’t know shit about cooking. He cooks dinner, I deal with the bureaucracy situations.

    Also, I’m don’t know if you’ve ever spent time with someone who struggles with ADHD and Neurodivergence but their brains don’t work like others. They can’t force themselves to do things that other people can tough out. They can study all night but if their brain can’t stay on track, they won’t be able to retain it.

    When I come along and start telling him how tax brackets work, especially if he didn’t ask me, hes going to be frustrated and he’s not going to get through it easily.

    I don’t know if he just doesn’t want to work OT and has settled on this excuse or if there is some other issue but it doesn’t matter. If he doesn’t want to work OT, that’s okay!