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Cake day: August 15th, 2024

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  • Yeah probably as always only a matter of perspective. Don’t listen to other men, just do what feels right for yourself.

    I took a solid 9 months paternity leave with my son, and I think we just built the best base for a father son relationship I could ever imagine or hope to have. I know they don’t seem like it as a baby, but you are building your foundation already.

    This was 3 years ago and I still feel the outcome of it every day.

    Go for it , be yourself, don’t listen to others.



  • Absolutely feel you, kinda similar situation at work atm. What frustrates me the most is that none of the IT personnel understands my frustration because most are not in that kind of IT community and don’t share the ideas behind all that. Just here to earn a dollar, whatever system we’re working on. No intrinsic desire to make the world better or at least more secure, none of that. Just robots and bureaucrats.