Right? The best plan.

because as far as you were concerned, everyone is in the same tribe as you

I definitely don’t think that way. I’m aware that I am different from other people.

Reposting from my other comment:

Well I had the luxury of dating a psychologist who specializes in diagnoses and her brother is autistic - so she is very aware of autism and how it works and what it looks like in different people.

She confirmed I’m not autistic and thought it was hilarious that anyone would assume that about me. She’s known me for years and she has experience in that field. She knows better than just randoms at a meet up group would.

Well I had the luxury of dating a psychologist who specializes in diagnoses and her brother is autistic - so she is very aware of autism and how it works and what it looks like in different people.

When I told her that random autistic girls from my comm were making this assumption she gave me the biggest eye roll and a laugh. Because duh, I’m not autistic.

I’m impressed that you managed to reach gf level with someone like that.

If I can’t get through a conversation with a person it’s just like, too frustrating for me. Makes me feel crazy too. Like I know I’m being coherent but talking to someone like that makes me feel like I have to try extra hard to understand them even though they’re the ones not making sense.

I’m not sure! Last I saw he hooked up with some girl and moved back to Montana I believe.

Becky Connor. She was such a little bad ass when she was growing up and she does a hell of a job bouncing back from being a widow as an adult.

That’s really cool. You sound like one of my old roommates - he wanted to do the same type of games and do every part of making them.

ugh same.

Eraserhead.

what is ASAB in this context?

god that sucks to hear.

I’m alarmed at the amount of people I met, mostly women, who are like upset when I tell them I’m not autistic. It’s like they want me to be or something. They insisted I needed to get tested to be sure.

Like what is with these people wanting this to be common and wanting to get people join in like its a club? It’s a genetic trait. You either have it or you don’t I thought.

I don’t know a single person who thinks you can’t like someone’s art because you dislike the artist

I know plenty of people like this.

lol even mods don’t follow rules on reddit and there are private subs where people do whatever the hell they want.

and we all know what reddit mods do.

To me, she was awful for ripping someone off and then the icing on the shit cake is that she’s a terf as well.

So I feel very validated in knowing that I was always right about what a piece of absolute trash she is. And always was. Don’t know why anyone would want to read some rip off hack book lol

I always hated those books when I was a kid before any of the shit about JK came to light - and its cause she’s a fucking hack.

Troll, the film from 1986 is a story about Harry Potter and the Potter family where he ends up training along side a witch to defeat evil.

She’s a hack and her story blows.

For example, “Should I do A or B?” If you ask for “this or that” it is clear to the listener that you considered your options already and have invested sufficient thought to your question. Therefore they can just offer you their opinion as it is asked.

Ask customer if it’s this or that - they respond with just “yes”

You underestimate how stupid the general public truly is.

On that note, I hate question dodgers. Especially since I work online chatting with customers, and I’ll ask them something direct, like “when were you meant to receive this check” and they fucking come back with “So my check is missing”

Like damn, fuckhead. I am already aware your check is missing. Definitely not what I asked. And I can’t tell if they are just that brand of dumb or if they’re being difficult on purpose.

I tried to switch to Mastodon a few times in the past, before the twitter issues were even happening and I could just never get into it.

And you’re right, the only reason I was ever on twitter is because I was following artists that weren’t anywhere else. Now I’m not on there and some of those artists never moved platforms because it was a hassle for them to and they risk losing their audience when they move platforms cause you can never just expect people to follow you as an artist.

I use a ceramic pan mostly and try to stay away from nonstick and teflon because that can scratch over time and get into food.

I also have an issue with rinsing out dishes. I’m worried there is still going to be soap so I just rinse things over and over.