she/her
it depends a lot on context tbh, usually its fine but you can kinda tell when someone is calling you a dude to be an ass
honestly not everyone even wants to move up, ill gladly take a simple job if im paid enough to live and have enough free time and money to do the things that i really enjoy
its too bad that its always expected to strive to move up and take on bigger fish, when im happy where i am task wise
being born in a place where i am not genocided for being myself (yet)
sigh