• Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    Consensual non-consent != rape.

    Though personally, I find that shit a landmine just waiting to explode - that and frankly “Yes” is hotter to me than “No*”. But more power to those able to navigate the boundaries successfully where everyone’s happier and satisfied for it. If nothing else, master communicators.

    Edit: For those who downvoted, seriously, I get it. But it’s definitely a thing, and some people happily participate. I’ve met some - usually very nice folks (as are most people I’ve met involved in kink communities). I’ll also underscore that this is very much NOT the norm - but still more common than people might think.

    Decentish broad-strokes article here: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/consensual-non-consent/