• Dyskolos@lemmy.zip
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    9 months ago

    Well… One survivor once told me her husband demanded a daily bj (sometimes two). Which took this pathetic weakling a solid hour of constant sucking and tugging. Oh and she should kneel before him, of course. While he watched soccer. I’d find that pretty exhausting on top of being utterly disgusting.

    Short story even shorter: you never know.

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      Far out, that poor person, what a terrible situation to be stuck in. Disgusting and exhausting is putting it lightly.

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        Oh yes it is. I just lack the vocabulary for fitting words. Even in my native tongue.

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            Name checks out… But i doubt that would be enough. More drastic measure should be applied. Blinding and de-dicking would be adequate. No more threat to anyone and the need to learn what it means to be at the mercy of others.

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      I…I just don’t even think that sounds appealing at all. If I had an SO that wanted to give me a BJ every single day I would say thank you for offering, but that’s just too much.

      First of all, skin is sensitive so that is quickly going to lead to some irritation, especially if it takes you a fucking hour to cum. Second of all, it is better to give than to receive. I’m trying to participate too, I don’t want to feel useless. More than half the fun is making my partner feel good/valued. If I lost that element it would just kill my sex drive quickly.

      I don’t know why this comment made me get all in my feelings, but it really made me pissed off. Like if it is consensual whatever you do you, I’m not here to kink-shame. But who the fuck are you to make someone suck your dick every single day as a chore. What a pathetic fucking loser. How do people like that exist…I just don’t even get it.

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        That’s just because you’re… Nornal?

        You could understand it better if you’d change your PoV. If you’d see women not as people but as priperty, things make sense. He was, oh wonder, one of those religious pieces of shit. Women are for making babies, cleaning and cooking. And of course, on top of it: sexual slavery.

        Took her 10yrs to find the bravery to leave him. She fled, changed name and moved 300km afar. But she’s broken beyond measure, because she also left her kids behind and can never see them again. So, it’s basically just the shell that survived.

        Another survivor I know, didn’t leave. Because of the children. He said “if you dare to leave, i will hurt your kids and u will never see them again.” and she obeyed until the kids were old enough to leave. And she did too. It was >20yrs of daily abuse as a breathing sex-toy. That was 10yrs ago and she’s still in constant fear he might be around the next corner. That’s like 1/100 of the story.

        And it’s far more widespread than one might think. Incels rising, islam rising, whatever else cult is rising where women are just property. Or this “trad-wife” shit. It’s even women living it freely because they still got a handful of rights…

        Ugh,people suck.

        PS: Watch fargo s5 if you want to get an uncomfy insight (also they didn’t dare to tell the real reality)